Adam, Eve, & Relationships: The Mating Game p9

The Mating Game: part 9

Hello again everyone, I’m here again with Spanduvilous Dailies and we are going to talk a little bit about preparation for the mating game. Now, one of my favorite songs is ‘Rapture of Love’ by Anita Baker. The lyrics are so powerful and I would often wonder how a love could ever be so strong to make someone feel the way in which she sang of. I honestly desired to want to be in love so that I too could be ‘raptured by love’. Now, I want to have a heart to heart and just ask you all if you have prayed for God to send you your covenant mate. The definition of covenant means “the conditional promises made to humanity by God as revealed in scripture.” The definition of mate means “husband or wife; spouse.” Now ladies I am speaking to you all about this because we often have a whole list of what we want from a man, and how we want to be oh so in love with him. If we pray for a mate, we must ask for things beyond the superficial, but most importantly of all, we need to pray for him like we already know him. How is this possible? Well, it can be simple. Just like you would pray for you family and friends, pray for him too. Ask God to protect him, strengthen him, bless him, and most importantly to prepare him for you. And give thanks to God for doing so. This is so much easier to do that us looking on our own and trying to make things happen before its time. You see, if we aren’t loving ourselves the way we ought, the we cant expect someone else to give it to us. Real love recognizes real love.
In the mating game it is about positioning yourself to receive what you need. No, I don’t mean that you should look for a guy at the club or even church for that matter, and wait for him to come up to you and instantly fall in love. I mean that as women especially, we need to be vessels of God’s love that shines through in our regular daily routines. You see, you never know who is watching you or listening to you. We must be mindful every day of our thoughts, words and actions. A man will not be inclined to want to get to know you if you are cursing at someone on the phone, or have a horrible attitude and demeanor. But remember that you must be on your guard as well and don’t be open to just anyone. God keeps it simple and orderly. When He is ready for you mate to show up He will show up without you having to look and you will know it. So, understand that if we start loving by the spirit of God in our daily lives, our light will shine through and illuminate the world around us. So in the mating game, the light will be attracted to the light, remember that. Please read Proverbs 12:4, I Corinthians 7:1-5, and Matthew 18:19-20. I love you, continue to be a light, and be blessed! Please read Proverbs 18:22, I Corinthians 7:1-5, Matthew 18:19-20

Proverbs 18:22
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obaineth favour of the Lord.

I Corinthians 7:1-5
Now concerning the things wherof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let everyman have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

Matthew 18:19-20
Again I say unto you that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.