Adam, Eve, & Relationships: Independent Woman p7

Independent Woman: part 7

God Morning! Welcome to the Spanduvilous Dailies with me, David Mitchell II on this Tuesday January 12, 2010. Today we are continuing our series on Adam, Eve, and relationships. Today and the rest of the week I will be talking about what is a good woman and how to be a first-class woman for your man. I hear the phrase every now and again about a Virtuous woman, but I always wondered what is a virtuous woman? So I looked it up and low and behold it gives a list of descriptions of what a virtuous woman is. SO now I have something to measure against. This woman had her own business, philanthropist, cooked, took care of the kids, and she spoke as wise as any man. This virtuous woman sounds like what we call an independent woman of today. Now my next statement you may not hear often or from any man for that matter, but we were wrong to think that being a INDEPENDENT WOMAN is a bad. But biblically it is a good thing; she is worth way more than rubies. Yes the independent woman is the Virtuous woman. And here is the kicker the man is supposed to praise her. For if he haves her he has a precious thing. He needs to appreciate her and show his gratitude to the awesome woman that God saw fit to give him. But after saying all of that there is one difference between the two. The independent woman lacks one trait. She is not submissive to her man/husband. Because she believes she has it all in place and under control that she must also control the relationship. But the icing on the cake for the virtuous woman is that She is still submissive to her husband, even though her Swag is on High. That right there is the only difference. So after saying all that, ask yourselves men “Do I have a virtuous woman or an Independent women?” And ladies ask yourselves “Am I a virtuous woman or an Independent one?” Please read Proverbs 31:10-31 KJV

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.