Adam, Eve, & Relationships: Love know How p4

Love Know-How: part 4

God Moring! Welcome to the Spanduvilous Dailies with me, David Mitchell II on this THursday January 7, 2010. We are now on our fourth installment of Adam/man in our Adam, Eve, & Relationship series. Most of us guys like to believe that we are manly men, moncho guys incapable of showing any real emotion or feelings. A lot guys do actually love you ladies when they say “I love you”. But you may be thinking we don’t ever “show it”. Go figure. So this one is for those guys who are having a problem displaying their love and affection to their lady. Fellahs first thing you have to do is actually listen to her. I know she may ramble on and on about absolutely nothing, but you can find some hidden jewels in all of that dribble. You just got to sift through it and find what you’re looking for. Let me tell what this will do. One she will feel appreciated that you are taking an interest in her instead of her always having to do or talk about what you want to talk about. Secondly this shows her that you actually care, because you are PAYING attention. This is one thing I am learning myself, and I have confirmed it with several close female friends of mine, that every thing a woman says to you is calculated and on purpose. In order to keep her around you have to pick up on all the subtle hints. She will give you all the necessary details into obtaining her heart. To us a lot of those hints are a little TOO subtle and can be easily looked over or misunderstood as a common thing that people do instead of an important window inside her character, so ladies you must be a little more direct. But I digress, back to the fellahs. And as you are doing those things I am sure her love will grow for you and now the love you already had for her is now being presented in a way that is priceless unto her. Now your actions are lining up with your original feelings, SO continue to love her, cherish her, and nourish her as you do for yourself. Hopefully this will take you to a point were you will begin to love to love her and cherish every moment with her with a weight in your heart. Please read Ephesians 5:28-30

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife lovesth himself. For a man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of His flesh, and of His bones.